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Post by ladybird on May 18, 2007 1:33:47 GMT -12
I have a confession.
Today I have heard from an old flame. And my poor little heart won't stop pounding. I'm still in LOVE with this person,but was hurt alot. I was asked to meet for a coffee some time.
The question is do I go or not.
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Post by alibi on May 18, 2007 1:40:07 GMT -12
we really need more details......................
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Post by easyrider on May 18, 2007 1:44:20 GMT -12
is it only coffee thats been offered?
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Post by beverley16 on May 18, 2007 2:33:35 GMT -12
are you going to hurt anyone elses feelings if you go for a coffee?
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Post by ladybird on May 19, 2007 3:27:38 GMT -12
probably everyone that see's us having coffee together,as the person is a lush.........
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Post by jadecurtis on May 19, 2007 7:41:06 GMT -12
whats the harm in a coffee and chat? its what leads on is the trouble! lol
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Post by dogndobbin on May 19, 2007 9:45:19 GMT -12
I say go for it. You will only regreet it if you don't and you only live once. Hope you get more than the coffee!
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Post by Spider on May 20, 2007 7:17:52 GMT -12
I'm not sure. but if he's a lush then. hmmmm might be interesting have you got a OH ladybird? if not go for it.. Think I'll sit on the fence on this one.
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Post by beverley16 on May 20, 2007 20:59:53 GMT -12
Think I'll sit on the fence on this one. is this you spider? as dnd said you only live once. I would probably go.........
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Post by ladybird on May 20, 2007 21:49:23 GMT -12
My partner hasn't spoken to me for a week and has slept else were. So hearing from my ex was exciting,I'm going to have to go for this coffee,just because I need to see how I feel. My partner is a good person but no help what so ever,and I feel we just go through the motions. But my feelings for someone I can't have,are so strong. But when you don't see them,Is it a case of what you can't have.
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Post by Spider on May 20, 2007 22:58:15 GMT -12
Oww Lb it sounds bad. Are you on your own then? Think maybe, go for the coffee and have a chat. See how you feel after. Maybe its the thought of old times thats exciting? Things may have changed, when you meet up. As for anybody seeing you... go somewhere out of the way... don't go to a pub though... the alcohol might cloud your judgement As for you OH... if he's not around and your happy as you are, then tell him how you feel. He might not be talking to you.. but you can still talk to him Good luck LB
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Post by beverley16 on May 20, 2007 23:01:05 GMT -12
and from me too ladybird.......hope you find happiness.
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Post by dogndobbin on May 21, 2007 8:43:45 GMT -12
so tell us LB have you made a date for coffee yet? Sorry to hear you and other half are apart at the moment. I think you need to see this other guy to help sort out your true feelings for him. What is his current situation? May be too much hassle all round if he is attached in any way.
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Post by jadecurtis on May 21, 2007 20:40:32 GMT -12
why not make your self promis you will not kiss or what ever just so you feel like you have some control over your feelings, i think spider has a point old memories can be much more exciting than reality
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Post by dogndobbin on May 21, 2007 20:57:13 GMT -12
why not make your self promis you will not kiss or what ever just so you feel like you have some control over your feelings, i think spider has a point old memories can be much more exciting than reality so tell us JC do you lose all control whilst snogging
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