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Post by down at heart on Oct 18, 2007 8:37:46 GMT -12
Does any one get those day. You know the ones. You don't know where to turn or who to trust,with your problems. Life can just bring you down for no apparent reason,to anyone else but YOU.Help is needed here folks but I really dont want to spill the beans,but I'm finding life hard at the mo. So here go's girls and cheer me up please.
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Post by fuji on Oct 18, 2007 8:48:08 GMT -12
when all is said and done, every one of us goes through what you think your going through at the mo,so yor not alone.Take time out for yourself,relax and think. Life is not as hard as you make it.You've got friends on here even if we dont know you,but we'll all try to help.
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Post by loucob on Oct 18, 2007 11:40:16 GMT -12
So sorry you are feeling so down. Is there a specific problem you would like us to try to help with, or are you having a generally nuts time at the mo? Sometimes we can have everything we want and still not be happy, but those little things we do have that mean nothing to others can really lift your spirits (Generally pets and friends!!). Heres sending some big hugs, and if you wanna chat more, fire away (or p.m. if you want) xx
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Post by beverley16 on Oct 18, 2007 21:23:40 GMT -12
Hey down at heart don't be sad Is there no one close you can talk your problems through with? Chin up there is always a better day tomorrow........... go out for a ride or just spend some time with your horse , cry, scream or shout it does sometimes help if all else fails have a glass of wine and a big bar of chocolate.
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Post by Spider on Oct 19, 2007 7:48:58 GMT -12
DAH.... please let us know, what is troubling you.. then we mightbe able to help or shed some light. We can't help if we don't know.
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Post by peabrain on Oct 21, 2007 2:11:51 GMT -12
Yep all the time. Guess its life and its sh*t. Sometimes helps to spill and hear what other people think.
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Post by down at heart on Oct 21, 2007 9:22:59 GMT -12
It's all about Men,Money and horses. They don't know how to look after it properly,and it's your fault and they get jealous of the horses.I know it's supposed to be a partnership,but if he's spending all the money,when he owes me a few grand and other people in my family more, how can he be playing fair. Am i just wining. Or do I have a point.
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Post by beverley16 on Oct 21, 2007 22:09:08 GMT -12
I think its a man thing down at heart they get jealous even if its unintentional my oh is brilliant but always moan that he is last to be fed and we always have to get back for the horses but never mind the football. rugby and formula 1 that he has been glued to all weekend. try not to take too much to heart. Money rules all of our lives its a pain in the ar$e can you not take charge of the bank account?
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Post by wiggle on Oct 22, 2007 6:20:36 GMT -12
You are right Bev, money rules all. Me and my OH get on really well 98% of the time..... until we have cash shortages and then its my fault because I spend every penny I earn on the horses apparently! (I still manage to buy food shopping and pay my fair share of the bills!) DAH- Sit him down with no distractions, and explain exactly how you feel and how you need things to change. Life is too short to be spent arguing with loved ones especially about money! Keep us posted and keep your chin up x
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Post by Spider on Oct 24, 2007 2:22:09 GMT -12
sorry to hear that DAH... but I would kick him up the ar$e and out of the house! Sounds to me like he's taking the michael
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Post by dogndobbin on Oct 28, 2007 3:58:39 GMT -12
DAH as everyone else has said we all have those times. Men are basically insecure emotional little boys and I doubt I could handle their moods and odd ways again. Been too long on my own I guess. Why are they always jealous of horses or as it used to be in my case the dogs? Keep your chin up we are all here for you and you can pm me as well as Lou if you want toxx
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Post by dogndobbin on Nov 13, 2007 7:59:21 GMT -12
How are things now DAH?
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Post by down at heart on Nov 13, 2007 22:31:47 GMT -12
Things are still the same. My life is not as good as it could be.money is getting really tight.
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Post by beverley16 on Nov 14, 2007 1:46:25 GMT -12
It is a bit of a dismal time for everyone i'm always short of money this time of the year..... I couldnt budget if I tried.
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Post by alibi on Nov 14, 2007 4:25:44 GMT -12
I'm just waiting to see if Ian gets his big pay out then it will be a good xmas
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